You find yourself looking at your partner in bed. Each night, you enter, shower, and give a goodnight kiss. If there's any intimacy, it might be in a simple missionary position with minimal movement. You don't bother turning on the lights anymore, and sometimes you even leave your shirt on. The atmosphere is chilly, and a sense of sexual disinterest has quietly settled into your bedroom. Alternatively, you might have passionate, intense sex, but both you and your partners
are simply very adventurous and want to add some excitement to your experiences. In any case, you're considering bondage play.
Bondage sex is one of the most thrilling and intense sexual activities in the modern world. It involves dominance, submission, and role-play in giving and receiving pleasure. If you're frustrated that your partner no longer enjoys sex, surprising them with a blindfold or a playful spank while you kiss and caress their body can ignite their passion for an explosive sensual experience. For even more intensity, tie up your partner, combine your sexual creativity with exceptional sex toys, and pleasure them into explosive orgasms. Make them keep asking for more.
However, before embarking on your bondage journey, you should invest in a bondage kit to help you pleasure like a pro.
How to Buy Bondage Kits
Contemplate Your BDSM Interest Level
Bondage play, while intriguing and exciting, encompasses a range of activities from simple blindfolding and spanking to complete sadomasochism (the infliction of pain and humiliation for sexual pleasure). Decide if you're just starting out, looking to advance your experience, or if you're already an experienced participant. The equipment needed varies significantly at each stage.
Newbie - At this stage, you're exploring bondage play for the first time. Opt for a beginner-friendly bondage kit. These kits include light pleasure items such as furry handcuffs, blindfolds, bed restraints, and tickler feathers, all designed to enhance your sensations and pleasure.
Intermediate - At this stage, you've tried and enjoyed bondage play. You're now exploring more intense aspects of bondage. Choose kits that include retainers and sensory stimulators to explore your fantasies. Items of interest might include floggers, bed or wall restraints, ropes, nipple suckers, cock rings, butt plugs, and dildos. Let your personal interests and preferences guide you.
Seasoned Pro - At this level, you don't need guidance. Feel free to explore and challenge your desires and fantasies.
Contemplate Your Game Preferences
Bondage play encompasses various types of activities that can be experienced at different levels of intensity. It's important to consider your preferences and the types of toys needed to make the experience as exciting and sensual as possible.
If you prefer strong restraint but aren't fond of pain, items like whips, nipple suckers, and electro rings won't be necessary for you.
For those who enjoy teasing and forced pleasure games, combining butt plugs, cock rings, and suckers with sensory enhancement will be thrilling.
If you're interested in punishment and discipline, then whips, gags, ropes, and electro-stimulation are essential.
Consider the type of play you engage in. For conventional couples, investing in a couple’s kit is beneficial, as it includes toys suitable for both partners, such as cock rings for enhanced erections, rabbit vibrator dildos for dual stimulation, and possibly a textured stroker for him. If anal play is part of your interests, an adventurer bondage kit with various anal toys like butt plugs, anal beads, and probes will provide an intense experience.
Know Your Materials
Bondage gear is crafted from a variety of materials, including rubber, silicone, metal, leather, plastic, neoprene, latex, and exotic fabrics. Each material offers a distinct texture and aesthetic to the experience.
While your choice of materials is based on personal preference, it's wise to invest in bondage gear made from high-quality, durable materials. For insertable sex toys such as butt plugs, vibrators, and dildos, choose body-safe, nonporous, and easy-to-clean materials. Some materials, like latex, can cause severe allergic reactions, so it's important to determine any allergies through a medical blood test. Materials like jelly and cyberskin hybrids may contain phthalates, a toxic plastic softening agent. Porous materials are also more challenging to clean and sterilize, increasing the risk of infections. Silicone, metal, and leather are considered body-safe and easy to clean, although they may be more expensive.
Erotic Bondage Precaution and Safety
Bondage sex aims to explore the limits of the human body by combining pain and pleasure for sexual excitement. These activities can be dangerous if not performed with care and precision. Peaches and Screams emphasize the importance of playing safely and enjoyably. Here are essential safety precautions you should always follow:
Engage in bondage only with a partner you trust. If complete trust isn't established, consider practicing in a supervised setting like a dungeon.
Participate only when both parties are sober. Bondage activities are safer when both individuals are clear-headed and trustworthy. Once restrained, you entrust your body to your partner. A partner under the influence may not prioritize your comfort and safety.
Avoid restraint positions that could lead to postural asphyxia or breathing difficulties. Monitor your submissive closely and release them immediately if you notice numbness, coldness, or discoloration, as these are signs of restricted blood circulation that can cause lasting organ damage.
Show respect to your playmate. Agree on a safe word (both verbal and non-verbal) to use if your submissive is genuinely distressed and needs you to stop.
At Pleasures, we understand that bondage play can lead to more intense orgasms and heightened eroticism. It involves well-coordinated activities that can deepen your connection with your partner. Embrace erotic freedom with our sophisticated range of bondage kits and transform your playroom into a sexual haven.
