Experience the gentle touch of your partner as they caress your body, the moist kisses, the sensation of their lips on your nipples, and the pulsating desire between your thighs. While pleasurable, these experiences can sometimes become predictable and mundane. Now envision these sensations being heightened and explored in a more intense and adventurous manner. Picture a feather delicately tracing your stomach, the warmth of a sensual oil massage, a hint of playful spanking and whipping, or the thrill of nipple and genital bondage, all working together to sensually awaken your entire body and elicit waves of pleasure. Whether you choose to amplify or withhold sensory input, engaging in sensational play promises an intense and ultimately orgasmic experience.
Sensation play can range from gentle to very intense, serving as a method within BDSM to enforce authority, dominance, control, and fear over the submissive partner. While primarily associated with BDSM, there are forms of sensation play that can appeal to non-BDSM couples seeking to add excitement to their sexual activities. The intensity of the sensations and the tools employed will vary based on the specific type of play being engaged in. At times, restraints and gags may be utilized to keep the submissive partner still and quiet during the play session.
So, get ready, Pleasures friends. Here is an overview of key considerations to keep in mind when shopping for pain and sensation play sex toys.
Choose your Type of Sensation Play
There are two types of sensation play each packing its share of pain and pleasure.
Sensory Modification
This involves ticking, scratching, pinching, clawing and temperature plays. It can be mild, sensual or excruciatingly painful. It all depends on your fantasies. To help you deliver these sensations, we have created a list of the sex toys you might need.
Feather Ticklers: tickle your partner to submission with these light and exciting tools. For full impact, concentrate on the armpits, behind the knees, nipples and sides of the stomach. You can also give a light touch to the genitals.
Massage Candles: if you are into deep nerve massage and stimulation, massage candles will be a great addition to your sensation play. The hot steams of oil will leave goosebumps all over your body with pleasurable and relaxation. The distinct aromas will also play a trick to your mind.
Clamps: these include nipple and clito-clamps. They are designed to increase skin sensitivity the particular area applied, such that the lightest of touch is intensely felt.
Wartenberg Pinwheels: these devices provide a prickly stimulating sensation. Be sure to use them gently to avoid piercing the skin, unless you like it painful and bloody.
Sensory Balms: these are designed to heat or cool a specific area and heighten sensitivity. They also add a sweet favor to the ambiance
Floggers, Paddles and Spankers: if pain is what turns you on, these tools will deliver you a stingy or thuddy sensation that will feel on long after play. They stimulate and excite the nerves sending you into an erotic bliss of pleasure. The sensation can be mild or extreme depending on your personal preference, force applied and materials used.
Violet Wands and E-Stim devices: turn up the voltage and deliver your partner some electrifying shock therapy. These devices will tingle and shake your nervous systems with numbing sensations of pleasure. But play safe when it comes to electro sex, a simple mistake can be fatal.
Sensory Deprivation
This involves restricting some senses to heighten other sensory. It is commonly used in BDSM to cause fear and control on the bottom. Some of the essential tools include:
Blindfolds: these are meant to keep the bottom in the dark, not knowing when and where the next stimulation with be delivered.
Hoods: Besides restricting sight, these are designed to objectify and humiliate the bottom. It psychologically prepares them for an intense sensation and heightens their nerve sensitivity. Some are fitted with ear pads to restrict hearing.
Ball Gags: these are meant to incapacitate the mouth restricting both speech and taste. The bottom might just want to scream out yet can only twist and drool.
Vacuum Beds: once you are sucked in, your whole body is deprived and any tingle or spank from the outside will send ultimate orgasmic thrills up your spine. This is not recommended for beginners, it does restrict breathing thus, risk of suffocation.
Pay Attention to the Materials
Impact play sex toys come in a variety of materials such as leather, metal, glass, plastics, rubber, silicone, wood, feathers, fur, and fabrics, among others. Each material offers a unique texture and sensation to the experience. For example, leather, metal, rubber, and plastics provide a stinging sensation, while wood offers a more thuddy feel. Glass and metal are ideal for temperature play. Feathers, fur, and fabrics create a teasing and tickling sensation that is incredibly stimulating.
When selecting materials, it's important to consider the cleaning and sterilization procedures. Some materials can be easily cleaned with warm soapy water and antibacterial toy cleaner, while others may require special care. Refer to your user manual to determine the appropriate cleaning method for each of your sensation play toys.
Sensory Play Precautions and Aftercare
Engaging in sensory play involves interacting with the nerves and skin, so it is crucial to prioritize safety. Begin slowly and progress to more advanced techniques and toys. Avoid pouring hot liquids on the skin to prevent the risk of severe burns, which can be excruciating and require weeks to heal. When using spankers and whips, be mindful not to strike sensitive areas like the spine, back, or kidneys. Additionally, never leave a person who is bound, gagged, or hooded unattended. Always be attentive to their comfort and respect the safe word if it is used.
Although sensation play is considered a relatively mild form of BDSM, it is a physical and emotional activity that necessitates thorough aftercare to aid the recovery of the individual in the submissive role.
Many individuals in the submissive role may enter a state of subspace during play. When concluding the activity, gradually decrease stimulation and communicate your intention to stop.
If your partner experiences dizziness, emotional distress, pain, coldness, or vulnerability after the play session, providing a blanket, comforting embrace, or their favorite drink, such as a glass of hot milk, can help them relax and return to a grounded state.
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